Written by bmlengel on January 8th, 2010
One thing as human beings we all seem to share is that we want to solve problems ourselves.We do not usually listen to advices and this can be attributed to our independent nature.But in reality we should seek help if our problems is out of our reach already.It would be wise to heed the advices [...]
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Written by bmlengel on December 25th, 2009
One of the saddest things in life is when marriages go bad.A couple thinking of living together in eternal bliss is wrenched suddenly with pain. Exposure to the kids will also hurt the children. But one major benefit of it is all marriage problems can be solved. Of course the parties have to be willing. But [...]
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Written by bmlengel on October 22nd, 2009
Great athletes are one of the things that we enjoy to watch. The things that they could do physically seem impossible at times. But in reality some of the champions are no better then their competition physically. The secret to top performances is in the mind. What most people don’t realize is that people succeed [...]
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Written by bmlengel on October 14th, 2009
One of the concerns of most couples is if counseling can be helpful to their marriage. Whether it is with family problems. Or personal problems.Or especially in relationship problems.After all does anybody want their personal problems be revealed in public.Plus you also have to shell out money for it.
How counseling can help relationships is [...]
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Written by bmlengel on October 2nd, 2009
Obsession to sports is one interesting part of American culture.We make the sports stars very rich by idolizing them.We want our professional sports team to be winning. Even the sports that our children play is also affected by these obsession.So much so that it can get bad at times.
I have noticed this trend running [...]
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Written by bmlengel on September 29th, 2009
Depression and anger are both bad emotions.But they seem to be on opposite sides.One of the two emotions can be be seen by people exhibited by an affected person. And the other one is unnoticeable.
As a family therapist San Diego I have seen both emotions. Both of them if too serious need addressing.These are [...]
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Written by bmlengel on September 16th, 2009
As people we have been blessed with things such as emotions.We have emotions that are positive. But we also have negative emotions.In this piece, let’s examine some emotions that can be negative at times.
Why they are two emotions we need to take a closer look at is because these emotions are ones that may [...]
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Written by bmlengel on September 6th, 2009
One of the great joys in life are children.They are great experiences of happiness when we were kids.And now they are wonderful experiences since we are now parents. When we are parents we have the job of helping them be successful.
I will take a closer look at things we can do to help children [...]
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Written by bmlengel on September 6th, 2009
One of the toughest problems a person has to experience in life is problems in marriage. It can be bothersome to many things in your life.Your job, your children, and even your health.It causes such powerful reactions emotionally it comes as no shock.
Usually it doesn’t happen overnight. Problems in a marriage usually grow and [...]
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Written by bmlengel on September 2nd, 2009
One of the best things we get to experience in our lives is relationships.From the wonderful experiences of family relationships to love relationships it is great. But sometimes a great relationship can turn sour. What was once a source of joy and excitement can become hard and painful.
I have seen this first hand helping [...]
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